What action can i take against bullies
What are the types of bullying behavior that might make it even hard on you to sue them in court? The bully can be extremely critical of your work and insist on needing to approve every step you take at work. You might be working on the premise that if you are polite and perform your work that should be all that is required of you with your employer. If you are working for a bully, what you do or how you do it won’t matter. His interests are tied up in making your existence at work an emotional hell.
If you feel confused, manipulated, isolated, and have started self destructive behaviors against yourself, you have been taken over by a bully. Most bullies work on the premise that you won’t be able to respond to their attacks without losing your job. That would serve to make a bully happy.
The workplace bully who has targetted you is really a frightening person. He is betting that he can get you to lose your job. That makes him not only frightening because of his behaviors but also because his attacks could cause you to lose your job which is close to destroying your life, in some cases. Why would someone become a bully and what character traits are obvious in a bully.
A bully perceives himself as being strong. If he targets you as his victim, he sees you as being weak. That is simply the bottom line of how bullies operate. The bullying that such a self professing strong person will do is to begin to treat you harshly as if you were sub human and not even on the level of a pet. The harshness continues and escalates. You cease to become a person and are glared at scornfully as if your presence in their august space is a highly mortifying situation for them to have to live with.